Over the break, I was fortunate enough to spend five days with my Dad and one of my sons in Collie. The frosty mornings stirred memories of my childhood, but more than anything, the opportunity to slow down and simply be together was priceless. 
At the same time, my Mum was off on a grand adventure with her sister and brother, travelling through Ireland and England, reconnecting with distant relatives and forging new bonds. It's the longest my parents have been apart since their marriage over 50 years ago, and it was clear that Dad was missing her deeply.
Our days in Collie were simple - sitting by the fire, watching football, and doing very little. Yet in that stillness, surrounded by family, I found something deeply energising and fulfilling. It reminded me that relationships - real, human, heartfelt ones - are at the core of our wellbeing.
Here at CBC Fremantle, we know that not all of our young men come from the same family structures. Like society itself, our community reflects a broad range of living arrangements and parenting situations. But what matters most is that our boys are loved.
That love may come in different forms - it might be loud and expressive, or quiet and steadfast. Often, it's unspoken but deeply understood. As a father, I know my sons might roll their eyes at my advice or think I'm a little behind the times. But I also trust that they know I love them deeply and only want what's best for them.
On the couch in Collie, watching my Dad, I thought about all the times I felt the same way about him - the advice I listened to, the wisdom I dismissed, the moments I didn't realise I'd treasure.
As the holiday break ends, often with our patience stretched to its limit it is an opportune time to treasure those moments of presence with our sons, whether it be in the car, at sport or simply catching him doing something kind or courageous, these are the moments that stay with them for life.
In a world that moves so quickly, let's not forget the power of being present. Whether we're at home, in the classroom, or out in the yard - the simple act of showing up, listening, and connecting can be life-changing.
As I sat with my Dad and son, three generations side by side, I was reminded that the most profound lessons in life often come not through words, but through presence - through being there. At CBC Fremantle, we strive to be that steady presence in the lives of our young men. Just as my father has quietly shaped me over the years, our role as educators, mentors and companions is to walk alongside each boy on his journey - offering guidance, belief, and unwavering support. We also encourage our students to show up each day and be their best - not perfectly, but consistently - because in the end, it's not just what we teach, or what we learn, but how we show up, that leaves a lasting impact.
Vice Principal
Brent Butcher